Elise and Tyler on the beach at golden hour

Elise
& Tyler

We're getting married in the Bahamas — the where is set, the when is coming. We'll send the rest as soon as we know.

Chapter one · How we got here

He asked. She said yes. We picked the Bahamas.

Elise and Tyler at the lighthouse, the afternoon he proposed
The proposalHe asked her here, on a Thursday at the lighthouse.
Chapter two · What we know so far

More to come, soon enough.

We're still working out the smaller things — the island, the date, where everyone will stay. Here's the shape of it for now.

Where
A small island in the Bahamas
(more on which one soon)
When
Sometime in 2027
date to come — save your year
Who
A long weekend with people we love
roughly seventy of us
Attire
Warm-weather, breathable, barefoot-okay
no shoes required on sand
Travel
A short flight from most of the US
passport, eventually — start dusting it off
Chapter three · Questions

A few things we can answer already.

Sometime in 2027. We're still working out the exact dates — we'll send a save-the-date once we lock it in. Holding the whole year loosely is the kindest thing you can do for us right now.

One of the smaller islands — we're between a few. We're optimizing for somewhere a little slower, with a beach and a porch and enough rooms for the people we love. As soon as we know, you'll know.

Most of the Bahamas is a short, direct flight from the US east coast. You'll need a passport — if yours has expired or is about to, this is your sign. We'll share specific routes once we have a venue.

Your invitation will tell you when the time comes. If you'd like to bring someone we haven't met, just write to us — we love hearing about the people in your life.

Our nieces and nephews will be there, and so will yours if you'd like. We'll figure out a quiet room and a babysitter rotation closer to the day.

Loose, breathable, suited to warm weather and bare feet on sand. Think 'a long lunch in Tulum,' not 'black tie.' We'll get more specific later.

Write to us at tyler@grayhavenindustries.com — we read everything and reply within a day or two.

Chapter four · Stay close

We'll send the date when we have it.

A real invitation will land in your mailbox once we lock in the day. In the meantime, leave us an address and we'll keep you posted as things take shape.

Or just write to us directly — tyler@grayhavenindustries.com